It is important to be aware of the fact that risks are generally grouped into four categories (the 4Cs<\/strong>):<\/p>\n\n\n\n Content<\/strong> Conduct<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Contact<\/strong> Contract<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cyberbullying <\/strong>is abusive, targeted, deliberate and repeated behavior intended to harm another person through technology<\/strong>. Sometimes sexual images and videos are created and distributed as a form of bullying, or email accounts and social media profiles are stolen to humiliate and hurt someone. Threats, harassment, humiliation can happen via text messages, emails, chat rooms, online forums, on social media websites.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Online gaming <\/strong>is a common pastime which provides an opportunity for connection, particularly with people who share a common interest. Unfortunately, many people experience online harassment while playing games<\/strong> that can also cross into real life with augmented reality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Gamers often have a choice about what personal or contact information to share through an online profile or chat conversations with other players. When moving into virtual or augmented reality, privacy and safety concerns increase: for instance, augmented reality games may allow geolocation of a player in order to let other gamers interact with them at a shared location.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Players have reported experiencing harassment, stalking and threats of death and sexual violence, for example.<\/strong> These experiences are very traumatizing. In some cases, and if enough identifying information is available, the abuse could move from online to offline dimension, to in person abuse.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Online grooming is when an unknown person (often an adult) impersonates someone else, for example an adult posing as a teenager, to try to gain the confidence of children or young people, encouranging them to share certain information and then abuse his\/her position of power in one way or another. The enticement <\/strong>of children or teenagers entails a process of preparing them for future\u00a0 sexual contact through a gradual building of trust which may take time, but can also happen very abruptly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Communication happens through technology, like texting or chatting through an app\/game\/website, to make it easier to commit a specific sexual offence against them. It can be the first step towards sex trafficking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Online sexual coercion and extortion of children<\/strong>, also called \u2019sextortion\u2019 <\/strong>is, simply, put, extortion using sex. It occurs when someone online threatens to send a sexual image or video of you to other people if you don\u2019t pay the person (financial aim) or provide sexual services or more sexual content (sexual aim). The use of live-streaming services has increased the vulnerability particularly of youth to this type of exploitation because they can be recorded without their knowledge and then blackmailed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s very important to have age-appropriate conversations<\/strong> with children and teens about the risks associated with using technology, as children\u2019s understanding of digital privacy and security may differ based on their age. For instance, younger children (5-7 years old) may have a certain sense of privacy, but find it difficult to understand the consequences of their actions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Teens will often comply with online threats in an effort to manage the situation in the short term and on their own since it is often very difficult for them to seek adult assistance<\/strong> if they\u2019re embarrassed and\/or scared. The desire to meet the individual in person could place the teen in a dangerous situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While a zero-risk online environment does not exist at the moment, educators and parents can make sure that their children become safe and responsible users on social networking websites<\/strong>, by teaching them about internet safety, being aware of their online habits and directing them to appropriate websites.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Stay informed<\/strong> of the latest Internet websites and social media that children make use of. Seek information about parental controls and access limitations that some social media platforms enable. For example, you can easily find guides for WhatsApp<\/a>, Instagram<\/a>, Facebook<\/a>, Messenger<\/a>, or TikTok<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Get involved.<\/strong> Spend time online with your child, whether at home, at school, at a computer centre in your community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Place your child\u2019s computer into a family room or a frequented room, this may limit the visiting of potentially dangerous chat rooms and social networking websites, as most teens prefer to view these sites in private. You may also want to limit your child\u2019s use of the computer to certain times, such as when you are home or in the room.<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Talk to your children about the dangers of the Internet<\/strong>. Bottom line is: stay alert when using digital media. People aren\u2019t always who they seem to be, even in real life, and sometimes they change and do mean things. Discuss with your children about being critical thinkers when online<\/strong>, in terms of recognizing false information, advertisements. Critical thinking about what we upload as well as download is the best protection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Reassure them that if they are harassed or experience uncomfortable situations online, whether it be by someone they know or do not know, they must contact you immediately<\/strong>. Talk about the possible legal consequences<\/strong>: taking <\/strong>or sending nudes or sexually suggestive photos of yourself or anyone else may have legal consequences (for instance, for possession or distribution of child pornographic content). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Discuss also the possible non-legal consequences<\/strong>: intimate photos of yourself may go to a friend who can then become an ex-friend and send it to everyone you know. People may decide to share them out of peer pressure, anger (after a breakup), or to blackmail you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Have an open two-way dialogue<\/strong> with your children about sexting in a relaxed setting. Ask them what they know about it (they may not have heard the term, so \u201cnaked photo-sharing\u201d works too). Express how you feel in a conversational, non-confrontational way. Teach your children about settings and tools available on different platform<\/strong>s to use the internet more safely. Encourage them to use them. Talk about the red flags and practice tips together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n When considering parental controls, take the time to discuss with your children about the options and have them participate in the decisions<\/strong> that affect them. Allow them to share their views in a safe and comfortable manner before a decision is made, and show that you take them seriously. Inform them once a decision has been taken. Talk to other parents<\/strong> about their digital parenting practices: you can get a lot of support and guidance from the people around you, and people around you could likewise benefit from support and guidance from you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n If your child sees you making hurtful comments on a social networking site or not practising safety tips, they will be less inclined to listen to your guidance about how they should use the internet. Model good behaviour so that they know what such behaviour looks like.<\/p>\n\n\n\n How you can start a conversation with your child?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n What is the difference between people we only know online and people we know offline as well?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n How do we know that we can trust someone?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n How do we know that we have reason to trust information on the internet?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Not all messages from someone new online are worrying, but how do you know which ones might be?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Do you know where the report and block buttons are on different apps?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What would you do if you saw someone sharing something fake or inaccurate?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Who can help you if you see something or talk to someone that you\u2019re not sure about?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n What things make you happy when you use technology?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What things worry you\/ make you unhappy\/angry\/sad about life online?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n How do you stay safe online? What tips do you have for me, where did you learn them? Can you show me some of them so I can learn too?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What is ok and not ok to share?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n What have you heard about (sharing photos, grooming,\u2026) online? What would you do if this happened?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Can we talk about \u2026.? Remember, I\u2019m always here to help no matter how big the problem might feel.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n I can see that something is worrying you, can I help?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Adults should be particularly vigilant when children use online gaming platforms<\/strong> and increase their personal safety and privacy online by following some tips:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Choose a username<\/strong> <\/strong>that doesn\u2019t include any real name or other identifying information when creating profiles or accounts. Talk to children about how they can protect their privacy by never giving out identifying or contact information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Consider using different email addresses<\/strong>, profile pictures, and strong passwords for gaming, and for each game that the children play. This can help avoid doxxing, or prevent other users from being able to connect the gaming profile to real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Do a test<\/strong>: search for your children online, or use privacy checking services to find out what information is available about them online.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Educate your children to be careful when opening attachments and links<\/strong>, which might install spyware or other malware on their devices, and only open those from trusted persons or sources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n Remind your children to trust their instincts.<\/strong> If they start to feel uncomfortable and if it is no longer fun, it\u2019s always ok to cut a gaming session and to cease contact.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Any child that has access to an internet-connected device can be vulnerable to online child sexual abuse particularly if they are left unsupervised. 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The child is exposed to illegal or harmful content (age-inappropriate content, hateful content, extreme violence, pornography, age-inappropriate content, etc.).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
The child is an actor (perpetrator or victim) in an exchange that is harmful. This may also include their own behaviour making them vulnerable (bullying, sexting, non-consensual sharing of content, trolling, threats, intimidation, etc.).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
The child is targeted or experiences a potentially harmful interaction (harassment, grooming, stalking, location sharing, child sexual exploitation, unwanted sexual advances, etc.).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
The child is party to or exploited by a potentially harmful contractual pressure or relationship (targeted advertising, hidden costs, loss of control of personal data and identity theft, scams, unknown acceptance of digital products or services).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/help.unhcr.org\/hungary\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/86\/2023\/04\/safe-children-1.png\")
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Cyberbullying<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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What can you do as a parent, carer or educator?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Create a safe space and engage your children<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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